- Hide a love note in his briefcase.
- Send a sweet text message, for no reason at all.
- Send a sexy text message, for a very good reason.
- Invite him on a date for a change.
- Cook his favorite dinner.
- Make sure his favorite clothes are clean and pressed.
- Ask about his work…and mean it.
- Watch the whole game with him.
- Challenge him to a race. Let him win.
- Don’t interrupt him when he’s talking.
- Wear perfume again.
- Laugh at his jokes, even the bad ones.
- Tell him he looks extra-handsome.
- Let him enjoy his hobby guilt-free. Even if 18 holes take half a day.
- Play songs you both loved when you were dating.
- Praise him in front of the kids.
- Kiss him when he walks in the door.
- Kiss him when he walks out the door.
- Kiss him when he gets anywhere near the door.
- Let the kids eat in front of the TV one night and have a nice, adults-only dinner in the dining room.
- Let him make the call on a parenting decision without second-guessing him.
- Bring him breakfast in bed.
- Choose the pretty nightgown over the flannel PJ’s—even if it’s cold out.
- Choose your birthday suit over the pretty nightgown.
- When you tell him you’ll do something—follow through.
- Pick up his dry cleaning and hang it in his closet.
- Offer a massage at the end of a long work day.
- Meet him in the garage so that you can greet him before the children pile on.
- Send a text with just one word… “Tonight?”
- Have supper going so the house smells great when he walks in.
- Light a candle in the bedroom.
- Buy him his favorite “every once in a while” snack or beverage.
- Fix up a travel mug of coffee just the way he likes it before he heads out the door.
- Act like you’ve never heard his story before—even when you have.
- Tell him how proud he makes you.
- Hold his hand when he least expects it.
- Encourage him to do something with his friends.
- Let him rough-house with the kids without scolding them at all.
- Feel his muscles.
- Wink at him.
- Say, “Yes.”
