Adolescence makes its presence felt around 9 to 10 and is the stage of adolescence.
Let’s look briefly at what to expect from each stage.
The young man is still in the family values and observes the changes in his body.
Early adolescence 9-11
He begins to question his parents, family values, and his sexual development.
Middle adolescence 13-15
He tries to disagree with family morality and family rules, to challenge the school, wants to be different from his parents and himself with his classmates, whose group he feels belongs to…
Lambropoulou points out to efiveia.gr that often the effort for dialogue ends in a conflict …
Late adolescence 15-18
When he thinks they don’t understand him, he becomes provocative. He is experimenting in different fields than parents in religion, politics. He talks intensively and passionately defends his views, without hesitating to clash with them. It shapes its own identity.
Post-adolescent age 18 -22
At this stage the young person begins to mature. The opinion and influence of the family is again taking on importance, although it is now following its own course.
It is open to dialogue and does not seek unnecessary controversy …
At all stages the young person needs to feel that his or her family is a stable asset. That he is there to show him his good points, to tell him how important he is, to pay attention, to admire, to reward.
Parents need to stand beside him, observing and listening to his or her every moment, to be alert when needed.
Not mean to joke and dominate but to know and understand each other’s needs, especially if it is your own child …
Parents are to be beside them discreetly and virtually seeking constant communication in this difficult but important period of his life called adolescence!
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